Ⅴ. 任务型阅读
It is easier to agree than to disagree. The following tips can help people solve disputes(争论).
Don’t make it personal.
If you get upset, it can help to remember that you're mad about the person's idea, not the person.
Never criticize(批评) others' ideas.
You'd better not say "That's a stupid idea." Try saying "I don't really agree, and here is why." Never shout loudly and you will have a much better chance of getting your idea across.
Use "I" statements(陈述) to communicate how you feel and what you think.
Using "you" statements can sound argumentative(好争论的). For example, telling your mum "You always remind me about my chores when I have a lot of homework." has a very different tone(语气) from "I'm under pressure because I have a lot of homework tonight. Can I do those chores tomorrow?"
Listen to the other person's point of view.
When the other person is talking, try to stop thinking about why you disagree or what you will say next. Instead, focus on what is being said. When it is your turn to talk, repeat some key points the other person made to show you have paid attention to what was said. Then express why you disagree.
Stay calm.
This is the most important thing you can do to make a conversation go on well.
根据短文内容,回答下列问题。
21. What can these tips do according to the text?
These tips can help people solve disputes.
22. Which expression in the text means that you are criticizing others' ideas?
That's a stupid idea.
23. Why shouldn't we use "you" statements?
Because using "you" statements can sound argumentative.
24. What should we do when the other person is talking?(写出一个答案即可)
We should focus on what is being said.
25. What is the most important thing to do to make a conversation go on well?
The most important thing is to stay calm.